that living well is indeed the best revenge. Part of what mike hates so much about me is that I have a good life and he doesn't. I have a family and a good well paying career.. and now i'm also spiritually whole too because of giving control of my life over to the Lord Yeshua Messiah. I love my God and my synagogue.. i have hobbies like piano lessons and learning Hebrew.. I have wonderful friends... I'm very blessed. He's turned into a bitter lonely alienated old man. I pity him, i really do. He had a wonderful opportunity for a happy life with me and Anne. And he blew it. really blew it. I loved him beyond all reason... Well.. i know that unless he repents and accepts Yeshua as his savior, he will be lost. Me and Anne will be in Heaven waiting for him... but I have a feeling he won't be going there. I guess that's between him and God now. I forgive him. and I'm letting him go. I can't keep hating him. It only hurts me and interferes with giving my heart and soul to God in worship. I pray that God forgives me of my sins, as i forgive those who've sinned against me. So if i don't forgive him.. then there will always be that hatred.. mixed with tattered love and heartache in between me and really truly being with God. So, i give it to Him... and I forgive. but i won't ever forget. Never.