totally out of the blue... i don't understand it. He was very nasty and said things like "i'm just the nice guy you beat up because you were raped and daddy didn't notice"..... That did it. The final straw... i didn't respond to his email (he never responds to mine) i just deleted it. and then i got delete happy. i deleted every single email he'd ever sent me (i'd saved them ALL), every picture I have of him, and even cancelled the two yahoo accounts i'd created under assumed names to keep up on what was going on in his life through 2 chicago artist's groups online that he'd often post to. i came to work this morning and did some more spring cleaning. i'm done. i don't want to ever think of him again. if i can somehow separate my memories and love for Anne from him then i am going to try to do it. with God's help maybe i can. It's taken me almost 20 years to get here... but i'm here.